Parent's Eyes: A Birthday Letter to My 'Sensational' Girl

Dear Jaimie:

I can't believe that you are nine-years old today. It seems like yesterday I was getting excited about welcoming you into the world! I love when your birthday comes around. I think I get just as excited as you do because I get to think about all the amazing things you've done up until this day.

I know you didn't have the easiest start to your life. But I knew even when you were in my tummy that you were determined to make it in the world. You see, Mama's body wasn't always the healthiest when you were in there. I had to go in the hospital many times to feel better. But, whenever I worried about you, gave me some sign that you were okay...just like you always have. Even years ago when you couldn't speak, or were afraid to, you tried letting me know in your own way what you needed to feel safe. You've always been so strong and determined that way.

Now that we understand the part of you that makes you experience the world differently, we've embraced it as part of you instead of fighting against it. And, guess what? It's helped you feel good about letting the world see the real beautiful you. Of course, you've always been there for us to see; but now you can see it too! And that makes my heart happy.

Just look at all the amazing things you've done since your last birthday: You've felt safe making new friends, you went to a school dance, you've gone on an all-day field trip, you went to a birthday party, you're learn to play floor hockey and other sports, you made it to Swimmers in swimming lessons, you're writing amazing stories and blog posts, you can wait outside with your friends at your school door until the bells rings (and handle the busy-ness of the crowd at the boot rack), you started walking to school without me and you're trying new foods! You even went to a live hockey game the other night! I hope you realize how amazing all of that is.

Jaimie giving hugs her way.

Every day you're showing the world that with a little help and the right tools, you can be brave enough to try almost anything that most other kids can do. And that's very special.

I am proud of you, Jaimie. You are one of the bravest, strongest, most determine people I know. Some people say you are alot like me in those ways. I don't know if that's true. What I do know is that you inspire me every day to be the best person I can be, because that's exactly what you do. And I thank you for that.

Keep on doing everything you're doing today on your life's journey because it's working: You ARE doing great things! I can't wait to see all the things you'll accomplish in the coming year. I'll bet you'll give me even more things to write about on your next birthday.

I hope your day is as beautiful as you are.

All of my love,

Mama xo